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Pisces Lunar Eclipse – Suffering With Ideals

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Pisces Lunar Eclipse

This eclipse is personal for me, and I can only give you what I see through my filter. That’s always true; I just don’t always admit it. Because as much as I love sharing my passion for astrology, there is always a chance I can get it wrong. Which is something I struggle with giving myself permission to do. And this last eclipse in Pisces for another eight-plus years highlights the ideal-versus-real comparison we all navigate.

So, it’s time to practice what I preach.

The Leo eclipse two weeks ago called on us to use courage to be more of our authentic selves. This Lunar eclipse in Pisces turns over a rock to show us the underbelly of our judgements and then asks, where did those idealized standards come from and are you sure you want to keep them?

Which is much easier to say than do.

A story to help illustrate the point

I have a young neighbor who’s had a really bad year. I mean, losing a job and a boyfriend, almost lost a place to live, but gaining a kitten while struggling to keep it all together. I’ve stepped in to help several times, and I’m happy to do so. Except when she texted this week, she caught me at a low moment. I didn’t have the bandwidth to step up when she reached out.

However, instead of being okay with not stepping in for her, I had a story spin out that I was promoting dependence, so I needed to step back.

Hmm. In hindsight, I know that’s not true. But boy, did it suit the moment when a simple ‘no’ didn’t feel like enough.  Instead of swimming in the feeling of not being kind enough and judging myself, I thought I would spill some onto them.

A cosmic assist

The Universe decided to help me out. (Funny how it does that when you let it—some Pisces magic.)

Suddenly, a story popped up on my feed that’s a couple of years old about a woman who refused to give up the window seat she had booked and paid for to a mom with a toddler who was melting down and wanted a window seat. Needless to say, someone filmed her refusal, and instead of simply finding someone who would switch, they were content to make her the villain.

We do that, right? I had my own version of it this week. Sigh.

We feel safer with clear-cut right and wrong, good and bad people. But where did we learn those definitions?

We’ve spent years with Neptune in Pisces, followed by Saturn in Pisces, with Neptune and then the Nodes there over the last two years. That’s a lot of energy asking us to examine the beliefs, ideals, judgments, and stories we’ve absorbed about what is good, bad, right, wrong, worthy, or acceptable.

Some of those beliefs may be ours. Others were handed to us long before we were old enough to question them. And some may have once protected us, helped us belong, or made a complicated world easier to navigate.

That doesn’t mean they still fit – if they ever did.

The Pisces/Virgo pairing asks us to differentiate between the real and the ideal, but perhaps this time the deeper invitation is to question the measuring stick itself.

Measuring Sticks And You

What are your beliefs now? Which ones were handed down to you? Which ones are ready to be revisited, revised, updated, or replaced with something that actually suits YOU now?

Because we can’t create something new while automatically judging the present by rules we’ve never stopped to examine.

The woman on the plane was being asked to give up her personal choice in order to suit the ideal version of behavior.

Except it invalidates an authentic no.

What inherited conditioning helps limit your ability to own your yes and no clearly and cleanly?

Hint: abundance is in the direction of a true response to any question.

Ideal behavior can also play to the scarcity mindset. What keeps us from a more generous response? Why not simply look for someone who is a match – like on the plane?

What beliefs make us put the person who isn’t available in the moment on the hot seat, trying to shame them into the response we want? Whoops, power-over thinking demands conformity for perceived protection.  See how sticky it can get, fast?

This much I can say: I didn’t like the image of myself as someone unable to give to a person who asked, so I created a story that made them wrong to ask. It made me feel better about saying no.

Sadly, trying to control what another person does has had very little lasting success, as misplaced power throughout history reminds us.

Pluto in Aquarius encourages us to lean much more on horizontal power structures, we are better together and the right combinations are possible.  Again, it’s where abundance sits. Which is what I soon discovered.

A Humbling Truth

It turns out my neighbor got what they needed, just not from me that day.

So I didn’t even need the story.

I missed the opportunity to trust that I wasn’t their yes that day, but that the right yes was possible.

And it’s not easy—that trusting part.

Yet we can all make it a little safer to be our authentic selves, with less fear, when we recognize that a real yes and a real no are available to everyone once we clear out the performative piece.

So where do your beliefs have you perform instead of showing up as you are?  Where do you expect another to perform for your approval or acceptance? What are the stories you tell yourself about what your actions—or someone else’s—mean?  This is where we get into the weeds on the Leo ego driven performance instead of authentic, dazzling you.

Which is why it helps to dig into where we rationalize and justify. That’s creativity, just pointed in the wrong direction. We’re back to creating a story that keeps us protected instead of finding out what might make us feel safe enough to risk authenticity when it doesn’t fit an idealized concept.

Neptune in Pisces gave us more than a collective ideal. Over these years, it also made that ideal personal. We each had to wrestle with what we believed was possible, what we longed for, what we imagined could be better, and where reality didn’t match the picture in our heads.

Perhaps that was part of the work: discovering which ideals were truly ours and which were stories we inherited, performed, or used to protect ourselves.  We can separate out those threads, which moves us closer to our ideal with each choice we make, because it really is ours!

A changing invitation

And now Neptune moves into Aries, and the invitation changes.

We don’t have to have the whole thing figured out. We don’t have to create the ideal all at once. Rather, we get to begin where we are, with what is real, and take one authentic action at a time. Slow movement gives us time to peel back unnecessary protection instincts that not only aren’t needed, but aren’t even yours.

That may be the real gift of Neptune in Aries: moving the ideal from something we imagine into something we participate in creating.

And we have more than 18 years to practice.

With Neptune in Aries for much of that journey, courage gets a push from a beginner’s mind. We don’t need to know where every step leads. We just need enough courage to take the next authentic one. Then the next. And the next.

That is how the ideal becomes real.

All of us, together, over this next stretch can tap into the magical, extraordinary realm of Pisces/Virgo—or we can continue to oppose and judge whatever and wherever we fall short.  Those relentless perfection pictures are always around.  If you want them.

Because Pisces points to where we suffer—often needlessly.

Pain is real and survivable. Suffering is an unkind story we wrap around the painful parts. We demonize ourselves or others and feel powerless when the truth is that we are far from it.

Remember, water can wear down a rock with time and steady application. That’s real power in Pisces/Virgo.

So, why not review your last two years and notice where you can clear out stories created from outdated beliefs—stories we tell with quiet judgments and criticism (Virgo), along with powerlessness and despair (Pisces).

Begin at the beginning

You don’t have to solve the next 18 years.

Just take the next authentic step.

When you do, watch how quickly you can release some truly unnecessary suffering in your life—and discover what becomes possible when the ideal has somewhere real to begin.

There was a great clip of Dolly Parton in tribute to her (I’m crying buckets over her loss). The interviewer called her good, and she flat out said, “I’m not.” She admitted struggling with impatience and irritation with certain people, along with the desire to do the right thing, but emphatically said, “I work at it.”

Those are words I can rest on when I feel the unnecessary obligation to say yes when I’m a no, with judgment. It’s a gentle nudge forward when something feels like too big a task or ask.  It’s a reminder when I fall short of what I want to offer.

My mistakes don’t mean I’m not good. They mean I get to work at it because I choose to, while I keep showing up for authenticity with less and less fear.

Then it’s my job to allow the effort and desire for better to be enough.  At least it’s a start.

I invite you to do the same.

The Cards and Stars will help.

Lisa Greenfield

TruthinHand.com


Audio discussion Pisces Lunar Eclipse

KEY DATES

Courtesy of Mike Lacey – Astrodaddy4U.com

AUGUST 28 — PISCES LUNAR ECLIPSE — The Release

The emotional culmination of the cycle. Something becomes visible that may have been hidden, denied, or difficult to articulate. The eclipse asks us to surrender what we can no longer carry.

AUGUST 31 — JUPITER TRINE SATURN — The Reality Check

One of the most constructive aspects of the period. Expansion meets discipline, and a dream can begin acquiring structure. This is a powerful day to ask what is actually sustainable.

SEPTEMBER 1 — MARS SQUARE SATURN — The Resistance

Forward movement encounters a wall. Don’t interpret every delay as failure. Sometimes resistance is information.  Apply what you learn while you wait.

SEPTEMBER 3 — MOON CONJUNCT URANUS — The Breakthrough

A sudden insight, unexpected conversation, or surprising development can completely change the way you see something.

SEPTEMBER 5–6 — CANCER MOON — The Emotional Reckoning

The energy turns inward. Home, family, belonging, security, and emotional needs become more important. September 6’s Moon-Mars conjunction can bring something to a head.

SEPTEMBER 8 — MOON CONJUNCT JUPITER — The Expansion

A moment of emotional confidence, optimism, and creative possibility. This is one of the brighter windows in the final days of the cycle.

SEPTEMBER 10 — VIRGO NEW MOON — The Reset

The two-week eclipse story reaches its new beginning. What has been revealed can now be turned into a plan.

Aries: What am I going to do about it?

Taurus: Can I make this stable with one tangible action towards my goal?

Gemini: What new information changes the equation? Can I see both the immediate and long term options?

Cancer: How do I actually feel about this?  My emotions are my home territory and require attention.

Leo: What do I want to offer that is uniquely mine to bring to whatever I do?

Virgo: How do I make it real?

And that final question is where the September 10 New Moon becomes so important as the start to the new 18 Year Nodal Cycle.


Pisces Full Moon Lunar Eclipse

🌙 THE SKY — The Veil Lifts

The Pisces Lunar Eclipse brings this two-week journey to an emotional culmination. Mercury in Virgo has just illuminated what is true, while the Pisces Moon asks us what we are finally ready to release. Then Uranus shakes things loose with unexpected information, conversations, or realizations that can change how we understand the past. The invitation is not to choose between facts and feelings, but to let clarity inform what the heart is ready to put down.

✨ THE CHOICE — What Do I Do With What I Now Know?

Knowing why something happened doesn’t mean you have to keep carrying it. Notice what has been revealed, let yourself feel what comes with it, and then decide what changes. You don’t have to solve everything—just honor the truth with one authentic action.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Judgement

Judgement asks us to see the past with clear eyes without allowing it to define the future. Something has been understood, and that understanding gives you the freedom to answer differently now. This isn’t about judging yourself or anyone else; it’s about recognizing what is complete and choosing what you are ready to leave behind.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What do I now understand that I am finally ready to release?


🌙 SATURDAY, AUGUST 29 — THE AFTERSHOCK
🌙 THE SKY

The day after an eclipse can feel strangely quiet—or strangely unsettled. The Pisces Moon lets yesterday’s emotional material continue moving through us before entering Aries at 10:37am, shifting the energy from feeling to action.

✨ THE CHOICE

You don’t need to make an enormous decision today. Notice what has changed inside you and where a new impulse is beginning to emerge. Let the Aries Moon begin turning an emotional ending into a new beginning.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Page of Wands

The Page of Wands brings curiosity, courage, and the first spark of something new. You don’t need a finished plan; follow the impulse that feels alive and see where it leads.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What new impulse is asking for my attention?


🌙 SUNDAY, AUGUST 30 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY

The Aries Moon wants movement, with Uranus sparking unexpected ideas or impulses in the morning. By evening, Moon-Mars friction gives way to Jupiter’s optimism and Saturn’s reality check.

✨ THE CHOICE

Notice the progression: impulse → conflict → optimism → reality check. You may want to charge ahead, but Saturn asks whether this new beginning can actually last.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — The Chariot

The Chariot is movement with direction. Courage matters, but so does knowing what you are actually driving toward.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

Is this a genuine new beginning or a temporary emotional reaction?

🌙 MONDAY, AUGUST 31 — THE COMMITMENT TEST
🌙 THE SKY

Jupiter trine retrograde Saturn brings expansion and discipline into constructive conversation: possibility meets responsibility, and confidence meets reality. Meanwhile, Venus enters its shadow in Libra, while the Moon opposing Venus can expose tension between what you want emotionally and what you want relationally.

✨ THE CHOICE

Jupiter says, “Think bigger.” Saturn says, “Build it properly.” Today asks you to distinguish what is worth committing to from what simply looks attractive right now.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Three of Pentacles

The Three of Pentacles knows that worthwhile things are built, not wished into existence. Collaboration, commitment, and structure turn possibility into something that can last.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What is worth building together?


🌙 TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 1 — MAKE IT REAL
🌙 THE SKY

The Taurus Moon brings the energy back down to earth. Mars square retrograde Saturn can create frustration, delays, or resistance, while Mercury sextile Mars offers a practical outlet: say what needs to be said, make the plan, and take the next step.

✨ THE CHOICE

You don’t have to force what isn’t ready. Let resistance give you information, then make the next useful move. By evening, the Moon’s trine to the Virgo Sun restores perspective.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Eight of Pentacles

The Eight of Pentacles is about making something real through attention, practice, and useful effort. Progress doesn’t require solving everything—it requires doing the next thing well.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What is the next useful move?


🌙 WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 2 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY

The Taurus Moon trines Mercury in Virgo, creating a much quieter day for organizing thoughts, making decisions, handling practical matters, and putting something into workable form.

✨ THE CHOICE

After the turbulence of the eclipse period, simplify. Don’t overthink what has already become clear. Trust the evidence in front of you.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Queen of Pentacles

The Queen of Pentacles brings wisdom back to what is tangible, practical, and sustainable. Let simplicity be enough today.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What is already clear enough to act on?


🌙 THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 3 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY

The day begins with the Taurus Moon squaring the North Node, suggesting that comfort and growth may not point in the same direction. Then the Moon enters Gemini, trines Pluto, sextiles Neptune, and finally conjuncts Uranus—bringing mental depth, imagination, and the unexpected together.

✨ THE CHOICE

A conversation, message, idea, realization, or piece of information could suddenly alter your perspective. Stay open to the strange idea; it may be the important one.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — The Fool

The Fool is willing to step outside the established framework and discover what happens next. You don’t need certainty to explore a new possibility.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What if the idea I almost dismiss is the one worth exploring?


🌙 FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 4 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY — Connect the Dots

The Gemini Moon continues yesterday’s mental momentum, with sextiles to Saturn and Jupiter bringing vision, structure, and confidence together. An idea may begin to look tangible, but the evening Moon square Mercury warns against talking yourself in circles.

✨ THE CHOICE

Choose clarity over cleverness. You don’t need more information if what you have already points toward a possibility.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Two of Wands

The Two of Wands sees possibility and begins considering what to do with it. Look beyond the idea toward where it could actually take you.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What possibility can I see now that I couldn’t see before?


🌙 SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 5 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY — Come Home to Yourself

The Moon enters Cancer, shifting the emotional landscape toward safety, belonging, family, home, and connection. A sextile to Chiron can open a gentle healing space, while the later square to retrograde Neptune can blur emotional boundaries.

✨ THE CHOICE

Nurture yourself without retreating into the past. Sensitivity isn’t weakness, but nostalgia, fear, and fantasy don’t need to make your decisions for you.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Queen of Cups

The Queen of Cups honors deep feeling without being ruled by it. Let yourself feel what is true while keeping enough emotional space to choose wisely.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What helps me feel safe without pulling me backward?


🌙 SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 6 — LUNAR WEATHER ONLY
🌙 THE SKY — Feel It, Then Let It Move

The Cancer Moon makes this an emotionally loaded day. The morning square to Saturn can bring heaviness, responsibility, or the weight of something you’ve been carrying, while the Moon’s sextile to the Virgo Sun offers a practical way through. Then the Moon conjuncts Mars, giving those feelings heat and momentum.

✨ THE CHOICE

Don’t suppress what you feel, but don’t let it become reactive either. Something may need to be said, defended, or simply moved through—so give the emotion a constructive outlet.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Strength

Strength reminds us that emotional power isn’t the same as emotional reactivity. Real strength is feeling the heat without allowing it to choose your response.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What does this feeling need me to do—not just feel?


🌙 MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 7 — RECLAIM YOUR FIRE
🌙 THE SKY — From Emotional Survival to Creative Power

The Moon enters Leo and exposes an old wound around visibility, confidence, recognition, or taking up space. Moon opposite Pluto can bring questions of control, power, and authenticity, while the trine to Neptune and sextile to Uranus offer imagination and innovation as a way through.

✨ THE CHOICE

Don’t mistake an old wound for a current limitation. Healing doesn’t always mean becoming less sensitive; sometimes it means becoming brave enough to express what you really feel.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — Queen of Wands

The Queen of Wands doesn’t wait for permission to occupy her own space. She turns self-awareness into creative expression and lets confidence grow through participation.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

Where am I ready to take up space again?


🌙 TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 8
🌙 THE SKY — Big Heart, Big Vision

The Leo Moon trines Saturn, giving confidence some structure, then conjuncts Jupiter in Leo, amplifying generosity, creativity, confidence, and optimism. After the emotional clearing of the eclipse, this can feel like the return of your life force.

✨ THE CHOICE

Let yourself believe in possibility again. This isn’t simply about feeling good—it’s about asking what becomes possible when you trust your own capacity.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — The Sun

The Sun brings confidence, vitality, and the willingness to be fully present in your own life. It doesn’t promise certainty; it reminds you that you have something worth bringing forward.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What would I attempt if I truly believed I was capable of it?


🌙 WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 9
🌙 THE SKY — The Turning Point

The Leo Moon sextile Venus in Libra opens the day with connection, creativity, beauty, and warmth. Then the Moon opposes the North Node, bringing the familiar tension between what feels good and what calls you forward. When the Moon enters Virgo, the focus shifts from expression to discernment, while Venus trine the North Node suggests that relationships and matters of the heart can begin aligning with where we are actually growing.

✨ THE CHOICE

Let your heart and your future have a conversation. You don’t have to abandon what feels good to move forward; you may simply need to become more discerning about what truly belongs in the life you’re creating.

🃏 THE TAROT COMPANION — The Lovers

The Lovers is about alignment: bringing desire, values, and choice into the same conversation. The question isn’t simply what you want—it’s what you are willing to choose.

🌱 LIVING QUESTION

What choice brings my heart and my future into better alignment?


In Closing

Until We Meet Again Under the Stars

Mike and I hope this Pisces eclipse gives you a little room to breathe, feel, question, and perhaps let go of something you’ve been carrying simply because you thought you were supposed to.

We’re both big believers that astrology isn’t here to tell us who we are or what we must do. It gives us another way to see what’s already unfolding—and sometimes, that different perspective is enough to change the choice in front of us.

So as this eclipse opens the door to a new 18-plus-year chapter, we invite you to be curious about what comes next. Not perfect. Not fully figured out. Just real, authentic, and yours.

And as always, the Cards and Stars are here to help you explore the territory.

We’ll see you there. ✨

With love and a little stardust,

Lisa & Mike

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